Due to the pandemic and health crisis we are currently experiencing, my in-person sessions are halted for now, and all the events at my playspace Sub Rosa have been cancelled through April (and this will likely extend beyond April). While I am struggling with this challenge as I know we all are, I have been connecting more and reconnecting with submissives on NiteFlirt, via video conferencing, and other platforms. If you have been wanting to reach out to me, please do! Fill out my contact form and let’s schedule a conversation/session/coaching call/playdate. I am open to all sorts of ideas and my creativity is blossoming amid the chaos. I also do coaching for femdoms looking to seek advice about the industry or stepping into their dominance, and couples seeking to bring kink into their bedrooms.
Right now, it is more important than ever to find connection. As we self isolate for the health of others and our family, we do not need to be isolated - there are myriad ways to connect and find release online and remotely. I am here to connect. If not me, connect with someone today and be sure to give yourself access to outlets for your kinks and sexual needs.
Search for online opportunities for classes, video conferencing, and parties. Check out the apps Marco Polo and HouseParty. Start that Fetlife profile you’ve been wanting to start. Work on your dating profiles if you are single or poly. I have coached a lot of subs on how to best represent themselves online, so reach out to me if you need support.
Do something today to support mutual aid for the most vulnerable in your community, drop off some supplies, share some of your extra supplies with someone who needs it, check on a elderly neighbor in a low risk way, reach out. Wherever you are, I guarantee you there are ways you can help, even without leaving the house. Use this crisis as an opportunity to connect with a spirit of volunteerism. I promise you it will also help stave off your feelings of anxiety. I prefer the term “social solidarity” over social distancing, personally. This is a moment to really self examine the ways that we react to collective fear and crisis - let’s make sure we will feel proud of the way we conducted ourselves after this is all over. Let’s demand that things change moving forward, let’s be catalysts for this change.
I have started gardening over the last two weeks, teaching myself to grow and seed plants is a deep meditation for me. I have been doing cooking projects and house projects. I am turning my anxiety into other things. I hope you will too!
This is an enormous hit to our industry - made of a powerful set of femmes and individuals who do the hands-on work of intimacy, empathy, erotic release, and connection, so if you have the means, please donate to me or Sub Rosa so we can stick around and be here on the other end of this. If not us, send some money to someone whose work you value TODAY, if you have it to give.
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My bedroom all set up for virtual play the other day…
Being the party planner and community organzier that I am, I am currently organizing a remote play party for folks to perform and connect from their home computers. If you want an invitation to this event, please email me as I am vetting attendees: violaplease@gmail.com.