My sessions

I offer professional domination, escapism, and fantasy fulfillment sessions in gorgeous, fully equipped play spaces with a large collection of toys, heavy bondage gear, fetish furniture, electro toys, and more. I have 15 years of experience working professionally. I work with people of any gender. I love working with couples and newbies (especially if you approach with thoughtfulness and respect). Rates are outlined below.

I thoroughly enjoy the following activities:

• Cross-dressing, sissification, transformation, forced feminization (I have a large selection of crossdressing items: wigs, heels, breast forms, lingerie, stockings, panties, makeup, etc.).

• OTK spanking, corporal punishment, discipline, impact play, flogging.

• Leather bondage, immobilization, sensory deprivation, restraints (including: suspended strap cage, leather or spandex sleep sacks, Segufix restraint systems, Style Fetish Bondage Chair, straightjacket, armbinders, sensory deprivation hoods, etc.).

• Foot fetish, shoe & boot worship, trampling, stocking fetish.

• CBT, genital torment, ballbusting, and chastity.

• Goddess worship, body worship (I am never nude in session), rituals, protocol training, service.

• Verbal control, psychological play, teasing & denial, and orgasm control.

• Electro play (I have many electro toys and I love using them, including: E-Stim with lots of attachments, Neon Wand, Tens unit, ErosTek, etc.).

• Erotic humiliation, status masochism, and degradation.

• Medical play, sounds, play piercing, examination.

• Long-term submissive training, chastity/keyholding, distance domination, dominatrix life-coaching/goal-setting programs. (Read more about this from a client perspective here).

• Smothering, playful wrestling (I do not do sessions that are 100% competitive wrestling), face slapping, bare-knuckle punching, and boxing.

• Clothing fetishes: rubber/latex, lingerie, nylons, leather, gloves, shoes, boots, etc.

• All manner of creative role-plays including Mommy play, ABDL, interrogation, boss/secretary, prison guard/prisoner, teacher/student, blackmail, adult baby, doctor/nurse/patient, cuckolding fantasy, Queen & servant, human furniture, puppy play, animal play, alien examinations, etc. I love hearing new and interesting role-play and scene ideas, so reach out with yours, and let's play!

• Couples sessions/coaching: creating strategies and programs to follow for home play, instigating creativity in partnerships, or teaching and training skills to explore couples.

  If there’s something you don’t see here, reach out and let me know, I might be game!

My Boundaries & Limitations:

I am never nude (meaning no nude body worship is offered) in sessions and I do not do sessions involving ANY directly sexual activities. I don’t do complex rope bondage or shibari, rather I stick to leather bondage and restraints (I love my new Segufix System) — if rope is your main interest I am not the domme for you. I do not do race play or heavy physical humiliation or body shaming (although I do enjoy SPH with consenting visitors). Read my FAQ if you have more questions. Read visitor responses and reflections from their sessions on my Praise Page.

Sessions with Others:

I have an active community of dommes that I often do doubles with (or group sessions), I also have some trusted crossdressers and male doms that join me in sessions, and I am mentoring my gorgeous submissive Scarlett Vixen who joins me when a sexy submissive is needed either for practice, role playing, or other creative ideas. She is learning dominance at my instruction as well, please let me know if you’d like to book a double Ms. Scarlett (there is, of course, additional tribute required for this or any double or group session). Here is a full blog account from one of my regular visitors who has written some delicious documentations of the sessions that Scarlett has joined. These are juicy stories…so check it out.

How to Book My Time

To book my time and plan a session you'll need to give me a sense of your specific interests and your experience on the Contact Form. I consider a good session/scene a collaboration, so please take the time to read through my interests above and let me know what it is you are seeking. Communication is key! I respond quickly to folks who have done a good job communicating and have demonstrated respect for my time and energy. Reading through my site and submitting a thoughtful form is the best way to do that.

The steps for coming to see me are as follows:

1. Fill out the Contact Form. Give me a few days to reply because I am a busy, if you don’t hear back try again, my inbox is full, and sometimes responses end up in spam. If you are seeking to grab my attention, sending a good faith deposit with your application is a good move.

2. If your application is intriguing to me, I will reply with more info and we will begin to arrange a time to meet. I will generally require a deposit ($100 per hour booked) for new visitors (deposits can be submitted via Venmo, PayPal, CashApp, Amazon or Etsy E-Gift Card). Always make comments on payment platforms very discreet, like: consultation, coffee, meeting. Do not include my name or explicit details on these apps.

3. Once we have a date established and the deposit is received, the session time and the play space will be reserved for us. You’ll also need to confirm the session two days prior as well as the morning of.

4. You’ll arrive on time, not early and not late. You’ll be clean and well presented. Feel free to bring toys you love to have used on you as an option and frame of reference. But this is not necessary; I have SO many toys. If you desire to bring a gift, inspiration and ideas for gifting is on my Wishlist here. I prefer the balance in cash at the time of the session.

Meet & Greets:

Some people feel better meeting first before diving into a session and I do love meeting with folks in a neutral space prior to a session in the dungeon. I also find this can be a great start to establishing a strong and ongoing dynamic. It can also put your mind at ease in terms of getting to know me, my style, and my energy. Generally we will meet at a cafe, bar, or restaurant (somewhere I suggest which usually has nice ambiance and private booths or tables). These are compensated at $150 (+whatever we drink or eat) and usually I am there for about an hour with you.

Tribute & Rates

My rate begins at $300/hour.
My rate is $400/hr for sessions before 11am or after 8pm.
My rate is $400/hr on weekends.
30 full minutes of aftercare, tea, and chat* = $100
My rates are higher for home visits (only with people I have met with previously and established trust).
I do offer reduced rates for BIPOC folks, trans folks, and women (please inquire).

*Many of my visitors enjoy coming down from the intense experience of a session with chat and tea. If you’d like a full 30mins for aftercare outside of the playtime, we can do an add-on of 30mins for $100. (adding on the 30mins of aftercare means we can use the full scheduled time just for play).

I no longer do one hour sessions because I feel they are too rushed, there are some exceptions, but I require 90 minutes minimum. Please be aware that in order to provide some aftercare, I generally end play 15-20 minutes before the end of the session so I can be sure you are safe to leave and not too deep in sub space. So keep this in mind when deciding on length. I do quite prefer sessions that are 2hrs or longer.

I very much enjoy longer sessions and overnights for regulars/visitors I trust. I raise my rates for the inclusion of specialty gear like my latex vacbed, heavy latex clothing, or my suspension strap cage — due to the fact that these items require increased set-up and cleaning. I also raise my rates for last minute session requests, early mornings, or late evenings. I will let you know when we discuss and plan the session.

Tribute and Gifting
Venmo: @MssVP
PayPal: violaplease@gmail.com
Cashapp: $msviolaparker
Etsy Giftcards to violaplease@gmail.com
Want to gift me? Visit My Wishlist.

My Playspaces

My main playspace is Sub Rosa (a luxe dungeon with lots of heavy bondage equipment), but there is also the option to meet at my newer playspace that we are calling “Mother’s Den” — a more domestic room with a bondage equipped bed, fully stocked crossdressing vanity and closet, a throne for Queen worship, a spanking bench, pink lit cage (AKA the “doll box”) and more. Both spaces offer similar gear and I do crossdressing/transformation & heavy bondage/impact sessions in both.